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Rebecca bas Yedida

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Lesson #2

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Severity of
Habitual Loshon Horah

  1. In Tehilim (12, 4) Dovid Hamelech says that Hashem will
    cut off the lips (in the world to come) of those who speak loshon horah.  Does
    that mean that if I slip once in a while I’m going to lose my lips?
  1. No.  This severe punishment is reserved for those who
    habitually and maliciously speak loshon horah with no regard for the fact
    that Hashem clearly forbids it.  These people are referred to by our sages
    as Baalei Loshon Horah; as if to say that they own the sin as a
    result of their constant violation.  However, as we learned yesterday,
    even with one violation, a person will transgress numerous positive and
    negative commandments of Hashem.
  1. The Tosefta in Meseches Peah states that the sin of Loshon
    horah is worse than the 3 cardinal sins and one who speaks loshon horah loses
    his portion in the world to come.  Is this also referring only to one who
    habitually speaks loshon horah?
  1. Yes.


Horah Under Duress

  1. My Father is demanding that I tell him about an incident
    that happened at work and I know it’s going to lead to loshon horah.  Am I
    obligated to obey my father in this case?
  1. You are not only exempt but even prohibited from acceding
    to your father’s demands under these circumstances.  The same would be
    true if it was your Rebbi who was making such demands of you.  Hashem
    created us all and his commandments take priority over anyone else’s.


This section is
formatted as a conversation between Oded and Menaseh.   Oded is encouraging his
friend Menaseh to be more careful in guarding his tongue from evil speech.  The
thoughts in this section are primarily based on the sefer, Shmiras Haloshon.

Menaseh:  I see people who are doing quite well in
their business and they don’t dedicate any time for Torah study.

Oded:  The first thing you must realize is that
things are not always as they seem.

Menaseh:  What do you mean?

Oded:  If a person earns more money than is decreed
upon him for the year, or if he earns the money in a time that is not his own,
he will lose it.

Menaseh:  How will he lose it?

Oded:  Hashem has many ways of extracting money from
where it doesn’t belong.

Menaseh:  For example?

Oded:  Medical bills, property damage, bandits, etc.

Menaseh:  So you’re saying that by working extra
(i.e. the entire day without setting aside time for learning), a person will
not profit.  If he procures more than was coming to him, he will lose it.

Oded:  Correct.

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1) Sefer Chofetz Chaim Sec. 1 Chap. 1 Par.
3, 4

2) Sefer Chofetz Chaim Sec. 1 Chap. 1 Par. 5


Sefer Shmiras Haloshon Sha’ar Hatevunah Chap. 9

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